许多孩子不仅和父母同居一室,而且长时间同床而睡,不少五、六岁的孩子还和父母同睡,即使家庭住房条件许可也如此。这种孩子长时期和父母同床而睡的现象不仅妨碍了父母感情的交流,也不利于孩子自立意识的培养。长时期与父母同睡的孩子“精神断奶”较晚,任性、做事拖拉、更普遍地依赖父母。有些孩子甚至因为迟至身体发育仍和父母同居,滋生出种种消极的性幻想和手淫等不良习惯。所以,父母一定要尽早让孩子分床睡觉。下面是两位母亲的做法:一位是从孩子零岁开始就训练,孩子很自然地离开父母能独自睡觉;一位是通过布置优美环境给孩子一个温馨的小天地,使其树立“这是我的房间、我的床”的明确的主体意识,适时地让孩子高高兴兴地开始独自睡觉。这两位母亲的做法都很成功,也愿您成功。 Many children not only live in a room with their parents, but also sleep in bed for a long time. Many children aged five or six sleep with their parents, even when the conditions of family housing permit. Such a phenomenon that children sleep with their parents for a long period of time not only impedes the exchange of parental feelings, but also not conducive to children’s awareness of self-cultivation. Children who sleep with their parents for a long time are “weaned” mentally later, self-willed, work-hard, and more dependent on their parents. Some children, even as late as their physical development, still live with their parents and breed bad habits such as negative sexual fantasies and masturbation. Therefore, parents must let their children sleep in bed as soon as possible. The following are the practices of two mothers: one is training from the beginning of the child’s age zero, and the child naturally leaves the parents to sleep alone. One is to create a warm little world for the child by setting a beautiful environment, The room, my bed, "the clear sense of the main body, in a timely manner so that children happily start sleeping alone. Both mothers are successful and wish you success.