自私,这是许多独生子女比较普遍的问题。出现这个问题,固然同独生子女没有兄弟姐妹相伴有关,但更重要的是家长的教养方式和教育态度不当,主要表现对孩子的关心过度、照顾过度、宠爱过度、迁就过度。这样,使孩子自觉不自觉地加重了自我意识,形成了自我中心的心理定势,只顾自己,不考虑他人,逐步养成了自私自利的习惯。纠正孩子自私的习惯,不是一件容易的事,家长要耐心、细致。这里,建议家长采取下列措 Selfishness, which is a common problem with many one-child children. Although this issue is accompanied by the fact that only children have no siblings, it is even more important that the parental education mode and education attitude are not appropriate. They mainly show their over-care and over-care of their children, excessive love and over-migration. In this way, the children consciously or unconsciously increased self-awareness, formed a self-centered psychological set, only care about themselves, without regard to others, and gradually develop selfish habits. Correct children’s selfish habits, not an easy task, parents should be patient and meticulous. Here, parents are advised to take the following measures