立界线就是给孩子立个标准,譬如写作业,你给孩子定一个做作业时间,过了这段时间便不许做。女儿写作业磨蹭、拖拉,该睡觉了,作业还有很多没做完。我气得大吼:“你气死我了,怎么又没写完,我一会儿不看着都不行,你就不能自觉点?快点,我看着你写。”可结果是:我在旁守着,她就很认真;我稍一离开,她就慢慢吞吞,一副不紧不慢、不慌不忙的架势。倒是我,心急得像热锅上的蚂蚁。再后来,看女儿作业没写完,我给她撂下狠话:“我先睡了,你自个看着办吧,写到什么时候就什么 Stand up line is to set a standard for children, such as writing homework, you give your child a homework time, after this period will not be allowed to do. Dad writing homework dawdle, drag, the sleep, there are a lot of homework did not finish. I am angry screaming: ”You mad at me, how did not finish, I will not look at it for a while, you can not consciously point? Hurry, I looked at you to write.“ ”The result is: I She was very attentive, and when I left, she slowly swallowed, an unhurried and unhurried posture. It touches me, anxious like ants on the hot pan. Later, to see her daughter’s homework did not finish, I gave her under the relentless remarks: "I go to bed, you look at it, what time to write what