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利亚喜欢用“脸谱”(Facebook)和家人朋友交流,因为她觉得外面的世界太多纷争了,不如待在家里用电脑和朋友聊天、分享生活趣事更好。然而,随着社交网络的普及,这个原本清静的地方也开始出现各种欺凌现象。从小被欺负的她决定不再袖手旁观——
At first, I spent about four to six hours a day on Facebook, mostly messaging family and old or new friends. I liked being able to talk to my friends from home, because people were always fighting outside.
But you couldn’t get away from fighting, even on Facebook. People 1)posted videos of fights or kids being bullied, or shared someone’s photo without their 2)permission, spreading bad 3)rumors.
I always hated bullying. The first time someone bullied me, I was six. Every day when we went out to 4)recess, one little boy would make me get on the ground. He would get on top of me and ride me like I was a horse. Kids laughed at me, and I felt 5)humiliated. I did not tell my teacher because I thought that would make it worse.
I also did not tell either my birth or 6)foster parents for a long time, because I was scared. I did not know how they would react. Finally, one day, I told my birth father over the phone. He told me to 7)defend myself by hitting the kid back. I did as I was told and I felt great after. I know fighting is not the answer but from that day, I did not let anyone bully me!
Bullying Online
Both my parents and my foster mother taught me that if someone lays a hand on you, you should defend yourself, and that is what I do. However, Facebook is a different world; people do not fight with fists. Instead, they 8)argue or make fun of people or spread rumors. Girls post half-naked pictures of themselves so tons of boys can “Like”them. However, that turns into bullying too because people start calling them 9)whores.
Other girls’ 10)nudity bothers me because it encourages males to speak to all girls in a 11)disrespectful way, and I do not 12)appreciate that. Plus, I think some girls are uploading these types of pictures because they don’t get the right attention they want and need at home. I feel sorry for them.
Facebook should be a safe place for people to just hang out and share pictures of where they’ve been. I noticed there was a “report” button on Facebook to report 13)offensive or 14)inappropriate posts to the site’s 15)administrators. Facebook will take down any post that 16)violates their terms which include, “You will not bully, 17)intimidate, or 18)harass any user. You will not post content that is hate speech, threatening, or 19)pornographic…”
起初我一天会花大约四到六个小时玩“脸谱”,大多是与家人和新朋旧友互发信息。我喜欢可以在家里和朋友们聊天的感觉,因为在外面的世界,人们总是争斗不休。 但是,即便在“脸谱”上,争斗也一样难以避免。人们会发布打架或者孩子被欺负的视频,或者未经许可就分享别人的照片,散布恶劣的谣言。
我一向很讨厌欺凌这种事。我第一次被人欺负是在六岁的时候,每天课间休息时,有个小男孩总是让我趴下,然后像骑马一样骑在我背上,孩子们哄堂大笑,而我备感羞辱。但是我没有告诉老师,因为我想那只会让情况变得更糟。
在很长一段时间里,我也没有对我的亲生父母和养父母提起这事,因为我很害怕,我不知道他们会有什么反应。终于,有一天,我在电话里把这事告诉了生父。他叫我回击那个小孩,维护自己。我照他说的做了,事后感觉很好。我知道打架不能解决问题,但从那一天起,我再也没有让任何人欺负我了!
网络欺凌
我的亲生父母和养母都告诉我,如果有人敢碰你,你应该自卫。我正是这么做的。然而,“脸谱”是一个不同的世界,人们并不是用拳头来争斗,而是与人口角、取笑别人或者传播谣言。有些女孩会发布自己的半裸照片,以求赢得很多男孩给她们点“赞”。但这也变成了欺凌,因为人们开始说她们是妓女。
其他女孩的裸照令我深感困扰,因为这促使男人以一种不尊重的口吻对所有女孩说话,我不欣赏这种事。另外,我觉得有些女生上传这类照片,是因为她们在家里没有得到她们想要的那种正确的关注,我为她们感到难过。
“脸谱”应该是一个供人们交流和用照片分享自己见闻的安全场所。我注意到“脸谱”上有一个“举报”按钮,可以向网站管理员举报具有攻击性或者内容不当的帖子,并删除所有违反其条款的帖子。这些条款包括“不可欺凌、恐吓或骚扰任何用户;不可发布仇恨言论、威胁性或色情内容”等。
补脑词汇
When I was 16, I started reporting. The first thing I reported was a video of a group of boys 20)jumping a boy and making him 21)strip. I had never seen something like this.
I showed my foster mom the video and she was 22)disgusted too. I reported it because I felt it was the right thing to do.
After I reported the video, I got a 23)response saying, “Thank you. Facebook will review your report.”Within an hour, the video was down. I felt good that I might have helped that boy by stopping the spread of the video.
Another thing I have reported is hate speech. I saw a picture of a dark-skinned black girl, and somebody had written 24)a bunch of 25)racist 26)remarks. I did not even know the girl or who 27)originally posted this picture, but I did not like that it was being shared throughout Facebook with racist 28)comments. I refused to sit at my computer and let that hate be shared to the whole world.
At times, I reach out to the victims on Facebook to let them know they are not alone, and that there are people like me who defend them. I also tell them, “You are beautiful inside and out. Do not let anyone else tell you otherwise.”
我16岁的时候开始进行举报。我举报的第一件事是一群男孩袭击一名男孩并让他脱掉衣服的视频。我从来没有见过这样的事。
我让养母看了这个视频,她也很反感。于是我点了举报,因为我觉得这样做是对的。
在举报了这个视频之后,我收到了一个回复:“谢谢。‘脸谱’将核查你的举报。”不到一个小时,这个视频就被删除了。我觉得很好,因为通过阻止这个视频的传播,我可能帮了那个男孩。
我举报的另一件事则和仇恨言论的帖子有关。我看到一个皮肤黝黑的黑人女孩的照片,有人在下面写了一堆种族主义的言论。我并不认识那个女孩,也不知道是谁最初发布了这张照片,但我不喜欢整个“脸谱”都在分享这张带有种族主义言论的照片。我拒绝坐在电脑前袖手旁观,让这种仇恨到处散播。
有时候,我也会联系“脸谱”上的受害者,让他们知道他们并非孤身作战,还有一些像我这样的人在维护他们。我也告诉他们:“你内外都很美。不要听任何人对你说相反的事。”
补脑词汇
A Nicer World? As I said before, girls posting naked pictures of themselves on Facebook hurts all girls, but sometimes I feel bad for the 29)specific girl. Once I was looking through my 30)news feed when I came across a 31)collage of a girl. There was a topless picture of her, and text that said she was 13 and getting bullied at school because of this picture, and that she tried to kill herself. There was also a picture of her on a hospital bed with an 32)IV in her arm.
I thought, “What the hell is this?” Then I saw people’s comments: “That’s what she gets for acting like a whore.” “Look at our generation.” “Who took this picture?” She didn’t get 33)sympathy, just 34)judgment. I felt bad for the girl because it looked as if she really tried to 35)commit suicide. I reported the photo.
By reporting things that are mean, I hope to stop future bullying. I would really like to see Facebook change because if people behaved better on Facebook, they might be nicer in real life.
一个更好的世界?
正如我之前所说,一些女孩在脸谱上发布自己的裸照会伤害所有的女孩,但有时我会格外心疼某个女孩。有一次,我正在查看新闻推送,刚好看到一个女孩的拼贴图,其中有一张她赤裸上身的图片。配文说她13岁,因为这张照片的缘故在学校饱受欺负,她甚至试图自杀。此外还有一张她在医院病床上打吊针的照片。
我想:“这到底算什么事呀?”然后我看到有人评论说:“谁让她像个妓女那样,这就是她应得的下场。”“看看我们这一代人吧。”“照片是谁拍的?”她没有得到同情,只得到评判。我为那个女孩感到难过,因为她似乎真的要自杀。于是我举报了这张照片。
我希望通过举报这些尖酸刻薄的言论可以阻止欺凌继续发生。我由衷希望看到“脸谱”有所改善,因为如果人们在“脸谱”上表现得友善一些,他们在现实生活中可能也会更加友善。
At first, I spent about four to six hours a day on Facebook, mostly messaging family and old or new friends. I liked being able to talk to my friends from home, because people were always fighting outside.
But you couldn’t get away from fighting, even on Facebook. People 1)posted videos of fights or kids being bullied, or shared someone’s photo without their 2)permission, spreading bad 3)rumors.
I always hated bullying. The first time someone bullied me, I was six. Every day when we went out to 4)recess, one little boy would make me get on the ground. He would get on top of me and ride me like I was a horse. Kids laughed at me, and I felt 5)humiliated. I did not tell my teacher because I thought that would make it worse.
I also did not tell either my birth or 6)foster parents for a long time, because I was scared. I did not know how they would react. Finally, one day, I told my birth father over the phone. He told me to 7)defend myself by hitting the kid back. I did as I was told and I felt great after. I know fighting is not the answer but from that day, I did not let anyone bully me!
Bullying Online
Both my parents and my foster mother taught me that if someone lays a hand on you, you should defend yourself, and that is what I do. However, Facebook is a different world; people do not fight with fists. Instead, they 8)argue or make fun of people or spread rumors. Girls post half-naked pictures of themselves so tons of boys can “Like”them. However, that turns into bullying too because people start calling them 9)whores.
Other girls’ 10)nudity bothers me because it encourages males to speak to all girls in a 11)disrespectful way, and I do not 12)appreciate that. Plus, I think some girls are uploading these types of pictures because they don’t get the right attention they want and need at home. I feel sorry for them.
Facebook should be a safe place for people to just hang out and share pictures of where they’ve been. I noticed there was a “report” button on Facebook to report 13)offensive or 14)inappropriate posts to the site’s 15)administrators. Facebook will take down any post that 16)violates their terms which include, “You will not bully, 17)intimidate, or 18)harass any user. You will not post content that is hate speech, threatening, or 19)pornographic…”
起初我一天会花大约四到六个小时玩“脸谱”,大多是与家人和新朋旧友互发信息。我喜欢可以在家里和朋友们聊天的感觉,因为在外面的世界,人们总是争斗不休。 但是,即便在“脸谱”上,争斗也一样难以避免。人们会发布打架或者孩子被欺负的视频,或者未经许可就分享别人的照片,散布恶劣的谣言。
我一向很讨厌欺凌这种事。我第一次被人欺负是在六岁的时候,每天课间休息时,有个小男孩总是让我趴下,然后像骑马一样骑在我背上,孩子们哄堂大笑,而我备感羞辱。但是我没有告诉老师,因为我想那只会让情况变得更糟。
在很长一段时间里,我也没有对我的亲生父母和养父母提起这事,因为我很害怕,我不知道他们会有什么反应。终于,有一天,我在电话里把这事告诉了生父。他叫我回击那个小孩,维护自己。我照他说的做了,事后感觉很好。我知道打架不能解决问题,但从那一天起,我再也没有让任何人欺负我了!
网络欺凌
我的亲生父母和养母都告诉我,如果有人敢碰你,你应该自卫。我正是这么做的。然而,“脸谱”是一个不同的世界,人们并不是用拳头来争斗,而是与人口角、取笑别人或者传播谣言。有些女孩会发布自己的半裸照片,以求赢得很多男孩给她们点“赞”。但这也变成了欺凌,因为人们开始说她们是妓女。
其他女孩的裸照令我深感困扰,因为这促使男人以一种不尊重的口吻对所有女孩说话,我不欣赏这种事。另外,我觉得有些女生上传这类照片,是因为她们在家里没有得到她们想要的那种正确的关注,我为她们感到难过。
“脸谱”应该是一个供人们交流和用照片分享自己见闻的安全场所。我注意到“脸谱”上有一个“举报”按钮,可以向网站管理员举报具有攻击性或者内容不当的帖子,并删除所有违反其条款的帖子。这些条款包括“不可欺凌、恐吓或骚扰任何用户;不可发布仇恨言论、威胁性或色情内容”等。
补脑词汇
When I was 16, I started reporting. The first thing I reported was a video of a group of boys 20)jumping a boy and making him 21)strip. I had never seen something like this.
I showed my foster mom the video and she was 22)disgusted too. I reported it because I felt it was the right thing to do.
After I reported the video, I got a 23)response saying, “Thank you. Facebook will review your report.”Within an hour, the video was down. I felt good that I might have helped that boy by stopping the spread of the video.
Another thing I have reported is hate speech. I saw a picture of a dark-skinned black girl, and somebody had written 24)a bunch of 25)racist 26)remarks. I did not even know the girl or who 27)originally posted this picture, but I did not like that it was being shared throughout Facebook with racist 28)comments. I refused to sit at my computer and let that hate be shared to the whole world.
At times, I reach out to the victims on Facebook to let them know they are not alone, and that there are people like me who defend them. I also tell them, “You are beautiful inside and out. Do not let anyone else tell you otherwise.”
我16岁的时候开始进行举报。我举报的第一件事是一群男孩袭击一名男孩并让他脱掉衣服的视频。我从来没有见过这样的事。
我让养母看了这个视频,她也很反感。于是我点了举报,因为我觉得这样做是对的。
在举报了这个视频之后,我收到了一个回复:“谢谢。‘脸谱’将核查你的举报。”不到一个小时,这个视频就被删除了。我觉得很好,因为通过阻止这个视频的传播,我可能帮了那个男孩。
我举报的另一件事则和仇恨言论的帖子有关。我看到一个皮肤黝黑的黑人女孩的照片,有人在下面写了一堆种族主义的言论。我并不认识那个女孩,也不知道是谁最初发布了这张照片,但我不喜欢整个“脸谱”都在分享这张带有种族主义言论的照片。我拒绝坐在电脑前袖手旁观,让这种仇恨到处散播。
有时候,我也会联系“脸谱”上的受害者,让他们知道他们并非孤身作战,还有一些像我这样的人在维护他们。我也告诉他们:“你内外都很美。不要听任何人对你说相反的事。”
补脑词汇
A Nicer World? As I said before, girls posting naked pictures of themselves on Facebook hurts all girls, but sometimes I feel bad for the 29)specific girl. Once I was looking through my 30)news feed when I came across a 31)collage of a girl. There was a topless picture of her, and text that said she was 13 and getting bullied at school because of this picture, and that she tried to kill herself. There was also a picture of her on a hospital bed with an 32)IV in her arm.
I thought, “What the hell is this?” Then I saw people’s comments: “That’s what she gets for acting like a whore.” “Look at our generation.” “Who took this picture?” She didn’t get 33)sympathy, just 34)judgment. I felt bad for the girl because it looked as if she really tried to 35)commit suicide. I reported the photo.
By reporting things that are mean, I hope to stop future bullying. I would really like to see Facebook change because if people behaved better on Facebook, they might be nicer in real life.
一个更好的世界?
正如我之前所说,一些女孩在脸谱上发布自己的裸照会伤害所有的女孩,但有时我会格外心疼某个女孩。有一次,我正在查看新闻推送,刚好看到一个女孩的拼贴图,其中有一张她赤裸上身的图片。配文说她13岁,因为这张照片的缘故在学校饱受欺负,她甚至试图自杀。此外还有一张她在医院病床上打吊针的照片。
我想:“这到底算什么事呀?”然后我看到有人评论说:“谁让她像个妓女那样,这就是她应得的下场。”“看看我们这一代人吧。”“照片是谁拍的?”她没有得到同情,只得到评判。我为那个女孩感到难过,因为她似乎真的要自杀。于是我举报了这张照片。
我希望通过举报这些尖酸刻薄的言论可以阻止欺凌继续发生。我由衷希望看到“脸谱”有所改善,因为如果人们在“脸谱”上表现得友善一些,他们在现实生活中可能也会更加友善。