如果你能丢掉“往坏处想”的习惯,你真的会很快乐。负面解读就像有些昆虫为了诱捕猎物而吐出来的粘稠液体,沾满我们全身。我记得捕蝇草用来捕捉猎物的叶子上也有类似的物质。事实上,我们全都很像可爱的捕蝇草,对不对?一旦发生了什么事、谁说了什么话,我们就反应激烈。不论什么事情,我们都先往坏处想,放在心里,并反复咀嚼。我们和捕蝇草不同的地方是:捕蝇草靠着诱捕昆虫生生不息,我们却会因此生病。几年前,我到一家大公司演讲,讲完之后走向电梯 You can really be happy if you can throw away the habit of “going the bad”. Negative reading is like the viscous liquid that some insects spit out in order to trap their prey and stained our whole body. I recall that there was a similar substance on the leaves of the flyweed used to capture the prey. In fact, we are all very much like the cute Flytrap, right? Once something happened, who said something, we reacted furiously. No matter what, we all want to go to the bad, think, and chewing. The difference between us and the flytrap is that the flytrap lives on its entrapped insects and we get sick. A few years ago, I was speaking to a big company and speaking to the elevator